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Is there a question you have wanted to ask? Perhaps it’s about a relationship or some decision you need to make. Maybe you want clarification about a Bible principle or some passage of Scripture.

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Maybe you didn’t know who to ask or maybe you were too embarrassed. “Ask the Counselors” is a safe place to ask questions and receive biblically based answers. We are trained in biblical counseling and have many years of experience counseling couples and individuals.

Depending on the subject matter, we’ll answer your questions here on the website (with your permission and with first name only or first initial if you prefer) or by email. Click here to ask your question.

Most importantly, our answers are based on the Bible, God’s inerrant, sufficient Word.

16 All Scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness, 17 that the man of God may be complete, thoroughly equipped for every good work. (2 Tim. 3.16-17)

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2 Grace and peace be multiplied to you in the knowledge of God and of Jesus our Lord, 3 as His divine power has given to us all things that pertain to life and godliness, through the knowledge of Him who called us by glory and virtue, 4 by which have been given to us exceedingly great and precious promises, that through these you may be partakers of the divine nature, having escaped the corruption that is in the world through lust. (2 Pet. 1.2-4)

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May 16 “Will your kids remember you as an encourager?”

I counsel a lot of people who struggle because of words that were spoken to them as children. Certainly, God can use it for good as He helps them find their identity in Him, but how sad when our kids have to overcome our parenting, rather than remember it with gratitude. You kids will be grown before you know it. How will they remember you? As an encourager or a discourager?


Today’s Readings:
2 Samuel 3 & 4
Psalm 62.5-12
Proverbs 16.13-15
John 4.31-54

2 Samuel 3 & 4:

Politics as usual

There truly is nothing new under the sun. As David rises to greater power, we see political infighting (Abner and Joab), jostling for power (Abner), and the forming of alliances through human means rather than God’s (probably the reason David took many of his wives).

Even though David was God’s chosen king he fell far short. One of the things kings were strictly forbidden to do was to gather wives and horses, gold and silver, and the like (Deut. 17.14-20). They were to rely on God and to depend on His power and means. Yet, he resorted to human plans and resources.

As is the case with so many biblical stories, it should give us hope that God can and will use each of us. But it shouldn’t give us an excuse not to learn from the mistakes of our spiritual ancestors, as well as, our own. Continue reading