Often when we harbor some sin, we console ourselves by claiming it only affects us. But whether we sin or whether we choose righteousness, we never do it in isolation. Our sin’s effect on our children and others can be profound and long lasting.
Ecclesiastes 11 & 12
1 Corinthians 11.1-16
Ecclesiastes 11 & 12:
Life is short. Spend it well.
13 Let us hear the conclusion of the whole matter. Fear God and keep His commandments, for this is man’s all. 14 For God will bring every work into judgment, including every secret thing, whether good or evil.
We might sum up the book of Ecclesiastes by saying. Life is short. Spend it well. Enjoy the journey and above all, fear God and keep His commandments.
Our sin’s effect on our children
Verse 17, “But the mercy of the LORD is from everlasting to everlasting on those who fear Him, and His righteousness to children’s children.”
Often when we harbor some sin, we console ourselves by saying we know it’s wrong but claiming it only affects us. But, in reality, whether we sin or whether we choose righteousness, we never do it in isolation. Our actions and behaviors do affect others, especially our children. That does not mean, that God punishes our children for our sins (Ezek. 18.20), but our actions do have an effect on them—sometimes a profound effect!
Conversely, when we choose to live righteously it also affects them. No one knows us like those who live in our own home. When our children see us living in the fear of the Lord when no one else is watching, it can be more powerful than all the words we use to teach them right from wrong.
What does it mean to “fear the Lord”? Are we to cower before a God who is just waiting to punish us for some misdeed? No, in fact, “while we were yet sinners Christ died for us” (Rom. 5.8)! To fear the Lord is to recognize that He alone is God, to reverence and respect Him as God and to be more concerned about pleasing Him than either ourselves or other people.
What is sweet to you?
Is God’s wisdom at least as desirable to you as your favorite dessert? Is it so sweet that you savor it in your heart and mind? Does it make you want to tell others how good it is and share it with them? When was the last time you baked up a piece of God’s wisdom and lovingly offered it to a friend?
The symbols of male & female roles
2 Now I praise you, brethren, that you remember me in all things and keep the traditions just as I delivered them to you. 3 But I want you to know that the head of every man is Christ, the head of woman is man, and the head of Christ is God. 4 Every man praying or prophesying, having his head covered, dishonors his head. 5 But every woman who prays or prophesies with her head uncovered dishonors her head, for that is one and the same as if her head were shaved (vss. 2-5).
John MacArthur’s in his Daily Bible notes on verses 4-5 say this about a woman covering her head in church, “The apostle is not laying down an absolute law for women to wear veils or coverings in all churches for all time, but is declaring that the symbols of the divinely established male and female roles are to be genuinely honored in every culture.”
I sometimes LINKUP with these blogs:
Mondays Making Your Home Sing Mondays The Beauty in His Grip What Joy is Mine/Monday Musings A Proverbs 31 Wife Marriage, Motherhood & Missions
Tuesdays Rich Faith Rising Unite Linky Cornerstone Confessions Titus 2 Tuesday Teaching What is Good Time Warp Wife Solo Deo Gloria Sisterhood
Wednesdays A Wise Woman Builds Her Home Juana Mikels My Daily Walk in His Grace Woman to Woman Word Filled Wednesdays Judith Whole Hearted Home Where Joy Is
Thursdays Serving Joyfully/Thriving Thursdays 3-D Lessons for Life/Thought Provoking Thursdays Becoming a Godly Wife Children Are a Blessing/Growing in Grace Linkup The Deliberate Mom/Shine Blog Hop I Choose Joy
Fridays Christian Mommy Blogger Fellowship Fridays Essential Thing Devotions Women of Worship Blessing Counters Missional Women Faith Filled Fridays Faith & Fellowship Bloghop Living in Green Grass Fulfilled Fridays
Saturdays Still Saturday The Weekend Brew Missional Call
This post may contains affiliate links, but I only recommend books and resources that I believe are theologically sound and beneficial to the reader. Thank you for supporting this blog and ministry by supporting my links!