“Are You Disappointed or Angry at God?” October 24

 

Are You Disappointed or Angry at God? - Do you know someone who used to come to church, but somewhere along the line they became discouraged, even angry at God? Maybe He didn't answer their prayers or work the way they thought He should. Maybe that's you! If you have walked away from God because of something He has allowed in your life or because you’ve been hurt or disillusioned by someone or something in the church, could it be you had a wrong understanding of who God is or  how He works?  Also read about prayer, obedience, godly friends, requirements for church leadership and the importance of good doctrine. Do you know someone who used to come to church, but somewhere along the line they became discouraged, even angry at God? Maybe He didn’t answer their prayers or work the way they thought He should.

Maybe that’s you! If you have walked away from God because of something He has allowed in your life or because you’ve been hurt or disillusioned by someone or something in the church, could it be you had a wrong understanding of who God is or  how He works?

Also read about prayer, obedience, godly friends, requirements for church leadership and the importance of good doctrine. 

 

Today’s Readings:
Jeremiah 33 & 34
Psalm 119.57-64
Proverbs 27.21
1 Timothy 3.1-16

 

Are You Disappointed or Angry at God?

 

1 Timothy 3.1-16:

What Should Church Leaders Look Like?

 

In this chapter Paul lists the characteristics we should look for in a man’s life before considering him for leadership in the church. The first list is for elders, pastors, bishops or overseers. The words are used interchangeably.

The second list is for deacons. Deacons serve in various other areas of the church, under the leadership of the pastors and elders. Both are extremely important. Paul emphasizes the fact that we should not be quick to put people in leadership positions (“not a novice” v. 6), but should wait to see the fruit of the Spirit manifested in their lives over a time. Placing someone in leadership before they are spiritually mature enough to handle it can lead to pride and a fall (v. 6-7).

 

Good Doctrine Matters

 

Good DoctrineVerse 15 says that the church is to be “the pillar and ground of the truth.” The church is to support and teach the truth, that is sound or good doctrine.

Good doctrine comes from one place, God’s Word.

16 All Scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness, 17 that the man of God may be complete, thoroughly equipped for every good work (2 Tim. 3.16-17).

It’s profitable for doctrine (teaching us what is right), for reproof (showing us when we’re wrong), for correction (teaching us how to get it right), and for instruction in righteousness (helping us live a godly lifestyle).

Good doctrine helps us see the tests and trials of life through the lens of Scripture. Good doctrine helps us know God for who He is, not as a God of our own making. Good doctrine grows our faith and trust in Him and prevents disappointment when He doesn’t work the way we think He should.

Bad doctrine on the other hand can lead us into all kinds of error, including a false assurance of salvation (Matt. 7.21-23) and anger toward God (Jas. 1.13).

 

 

Bad Doctrine & Anger toward God

 

One of the most widespread and pernicious is the faith and prosperity teaching. If you’ve been taught there’s a miracle in your mouth; that God wants you rich; that if you have enough faith or enough hands laid on you, you’ll be healed; or that your problem is a demon of lust, alcohol, or pornography … yet … after declaring “I’m healed” you’re not; after giving to get a promised reward, you’re still broke; or the lust, desire for alcohol, and pull of pornography is still there …, many become disappointed and walk away from God, even shake their fist at Him, because they believe they did their part and He failed to keep His end of the bargain.

Don’t misunderstand me. God is still a God of miracles. I believe He can and does do them every day. But the greatest miracle, is the miracle that takes place when we are born again and become new creations in Christ (Jn. 3; 1 Cor. 5.17).

I believe in prayer and the laying on of hands. I believe God heals, redeems, and delivers us from all kinds of sin and bondage. Physically, He can heal instantly or through modern medicine. But there are times when, for our good and His glory, He doesn’t heal this side of heaven. God can deliver someone from the desire for drugs or alcohol instantly, but more often He gives us the power to walk by the Spirit day by day (Gal. 5.16-24).

I believe in giving our tithes and offering in faith and that God blesses faithfulness in giving, but I don’t believe God will make us all rich or that we should give with a selfish heart attitude.

Our God is good and He is a God of love and mercy and grace, but we must get to know Him as He really is. Jesus told a Samaritan woman:

“But the hour is coming, and now is, when the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth; for the Father is seeking such to worship Him. God is Spirit, and those who worship Him must worship in spirit and truth” (Jn. 4.23-24).

If you have walked away from God because of something He has allowed in your life or because you’ve been hurt or disillusioned by someone or something in the church, turn back to Him. Get to know Him for who He is.

Of course, there are other flavors of bad doctrine, including legalism.

What is your experience with bad doctrine? Share your thoughts at the bottom of the post.

 


Today’s Other Readings:

 

Jeremiah 33 & 34:

Call to Me, and I will Answer

 

Chapter 33.3 says, “‘Call to Me, and I will answer you, and show you great and mighty things, which you do not know.’”

What an incredible invitation from our Mighty God! He promises to not only hear and answer, but to show us incredible things. The only reason not to pray is because we don’t take Him at His Word.

 

Psalm 119.57-64:

Obedience, Godly Friends, and a Hunger for Truth

 

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I love this psalm. It is rich in wisdom and truth and this passage is no exception. Verses 60-64:

60 I made haste, and did not delay
To keep Your commandments.

Do you obey the Lord, quickly, or do you hem and haw and try to find some loop-hole?

61 The cords of the wicked have bound me,
But I have not forgotten Your law.

Are you willing to live for Christ no matter what the cost?

62 At midnight I will rise to give thanks to You,
Because of Your righteous judgments.
63 I am a companion of all who fear You,
And of those who keep Your precepts.

With whom do you hang out? Do you spend time with people who challenge you to grow or who pull you away from the things of God?

64 The earth, O LORD, is full of Your mercy;
Teach me Your statutes.

Are you hungry to know God more? Do you spend time reading His Word and talking to Him regularly? If not, why not pray and ask God to help you get started?

 

Proverbs 27.21:

Do You Reflect Christ?

 

Do you reflect Christ?

Verse 21, “The refining pot is for silver and the furnace for gold, and a man is valued by what others say of him.”

We are warned repeatedly in Scripture not to get caught up in the “fear of man,” meaning a sinful concern about what people think of us, rather than what God thinks. Instead of pridefully worrying about what others think of us, we should be concerned about how well our lives are reflecting Christ and giving others a right opinion of our God!

 

Your Thoughts:

How has God spoken to you today? Did you see a passage in a new light? Did you see an area where you need to grow and change? Did you find a promise to hold on to? I’d love to hear your thoughts.

 

Coming Up:

In the next few days, we’ll talk about whether our faith is genuine, the veracity of the Scriptures, widows, laziness, the link between guilt and paranoia and more.

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How Do We Grow & Change? - A couple of weeks ago I wrote about prayer and Bible study and how they are "The 2 Essential Means of Christian Growth." This week I want to talk more about how those two means work themselves out on a practical level.Blessings,
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Getting ready for 2018

The holidays are just around the corner and the new year will be on us before we know it. What will you do to make Bible reading an ongoing habit in the coming year? I’d like to encourage you to set a goal to read through the Bible.

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And I hope you’ll sign up for my daily email. It can serve as a gentle reminder to stay on track. I try to make comments that are relevant to the daily struggles and questions that I hear in my counseling and discipleship ministries.

Start today so you can begin the habit and it will be a regular part of your day come January.

You can also follow me on Twitter, Facebook, Pinterest, or Google+. Just click on the social media icons. But nothing replaces having the daily devotion pop up in your inbox each day. It, usually (once in a while life gets in the way), goes out at 3 a.m. MST, so it’s there for early risers no matter what time zone you’re in.

So will you join me and, possibly, encourage someone else to do the same. (Why not email or call them right now?) Let’s get ready and grow in our relationship with Him together.

 

4 thoughts on ““Are You Disappointed or Angry at God?” October 24

  1. Because I grew up w/o the prosperity gospel I can sometimes not believe enough that God is willing to answer in a miraculous way. I want to explain away that which He’s not answered. Bottom line is the character of God and sola scriptura. blessings on us in all our praying and believing, meager faith as we have.

  2. Donna, the prosperity gospel is a dangerous teaching for exactly the reason you mentioned. When we don’t ‘prosper’, we lose our faith in God. So much of that is just wrong. And it is sad. Thanks for linking up on Grace and Truth.

    • Yes, Aimee, I’ve seen it happen too many times. But thankfully the truth can set people free from false doctrine. Thanks for hosting and stopping by.

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