Many people today argue that a marriage license is “just a piece of paper.” Others claim marriage is merely a social institution created by governments or cultures and is no longer necessary or practical. Living together has become normal. Couples build homes, raise children, attend church, share finances, and society hardly gives them a second thought.
So is marriage outdated? Is cohabitation simply the logical and practical option?
Jesus addressed a surprisingly similar issue.
In today’s New Testament reading, Jesus meets a Samaritan woman at a well and gently but clearly addresses her relationships. During their conversation He tells her, “You have had five husbands, and the one whom you now have is not your husband.”
Those words reveal something important: Jesus made a distinction between marriage and simply living together.
Why does that matter?
Because marriage was never merely a government arrangement, cultural tradition, or legal formality. Long before governments or societies existed, God established marriage in the Garden as a covenant relationship. More than that, He designed it to reflect something far greater—Christ’s relationship with His Bride, the Church.
Today, we also live in a culture increasingly confused not only about marriage but also about sexuality, identity, truth, and God’s design for human relationships. As believers, we will often face pressure to stay quiet, soften the truth, or avoid difficult conversations altogether.
But love does not remain silent when truth is at stake.
Today’s readings challenge us to think carefully about God’s design, His authority, and what it means to speak truth graciously and faithfully in a culture that increasingly resists both.
