“4 Questions to Ask When Faced with Decisions” July 2


4 Questions to Ask When Faced with Decisions -

When you are faced with decisions, try asking yourself these four questions to help gain insight?


Today’s Readings:
1 Chronicles 28 & 29
Psalm 78.67-72
Proverbs 20.6-7
Acts 10.24-48


4 Questions to Ask When Faced with Decisions


1 Chronicles 28 & 29:

Decisions, Decisions … 


Chapter 28.19, “‘All this,’ said David, ‘the LORD made me understand in writing, by His hand upon me, all the works of these plans.'”

Did you notice what David said, “He made me understand in writing …” I’m an on-again off-again journaler, but I see tremendous value in keeping a spiritual journal. I’m not referring to a diary like we usually think of them and I’m not talking about a place to vent and, in effect, sin on paper. I’m talking about a place where we write out prayers, key verses or devotional thoughts and keep a record of our walk with God.

Another way to use a journal in conjunction with our devotional time is when seeking wisdom for a decision. Try writing out your questions and concerns and asking yourself four questions (these are adapted from The Heart of a Woman Who Prays: Drawing Near to the God Who Loves You by Elizabeth George):

Why would I do it?
Why would I not do it?
Why should I do it?
Why should I not do it?

The first two reveal our motives. For example, would I do it because someone else expects it or because of what people may think of me (fear of man, Prov. 29.25)? Would I not do it because of a fear of failure or a lack of trust in God?

The last two get to why God would have us do or not do something. For example, is there a commandment involved? Is God’s glory or my testimony at stake?

This can sometimes be a very helpful process, but we need to remember that something we write out, even in our quiet time, is not the same as God’s inspired Word in Scripture. It is, however, one way God can speak to our hearts and reveal His wisdom to us.


Today’s Other Readings:


Psalm 78.67-72:

From Sheepfolds and Fishing Boats


Verses 70-71:

70 He also chose David His servant,
And took him from the sheepfolds;
71 From following the ewes that had young He brought him,
To shepherd Jacob His people,
And Israel His inheritance.

This reminded me of what Jesus told two fishermen, Peter and Andrew, in Matthew 4.19, “Follow Me, and I will make you fishers of men.” God takes who we are and uses it for His glory! 


Proverbs 20.6-7:

Proclaiming Our Own Goodness


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Verse 6a, “Most men will proclaim each his own goodness.”

Sadly, we are often blinded to our own sins and shortcomings. That’s why it’s so important to constantly hold up the mirror of God’s Word and to have other believers in our lives who can speak the truth in love.

Acts 10.24-48:

Ready to Hear


Verse 24, “And the following day they entered Caesarea. Now Cornelius was waiting for them, and had called together his relatives and close friends.”

And then verse 33b, “Now therefore, we are all present before God, to hear all the things commanded you by God.”

What a beautiful picture! Here is this man who is eager to know God better. He gathers his friends and family and they are expectantly waiting to hear the man of God speak.


journalWhat about You? Questions to Ponder or Journal:

Are you faced with a decision? Try answering Elizabeth’s questions.

How do you approach the opportunity to hear the Word preached? with boredom? with indifference? or with expectation?

Lord, please help us to be eager to hear Your Word preached. Give us a hunger and thirst to know You more and better. Make us like the Bereans who “received the word with all readiness, and searched the Scriptures daily to find out whether these things were so” (Acts 17.11).



Featured Resources:

The Heart of a Woman Who Prays: Drawing Near to the God Who Loves You

The question every believer asks—whether new in Christ or a seasoned veteran—is, How can I be more effective in my prayer life? When it comes to talking to God about people and life-issues, there’s always room for growth.

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A Woman After God’s Own Heart

Experience real peace and joy as you follow God in every area of your life—and become a woman after His heart. With warmth and grace, Elizabeth George shares practical, scriptural insights on how you can pursue God’s priorities when it comes to…

your husband—foster a deep commitment to serving and honoring him

your children—pray faithfully for them and teach them God’s Word

your home—create a nurturing atmosphere and a tapestry of beauty

your walk with the Lord—grow through love of Scripture and in spiritual maturity

your ministry—learn to reach out and be a blessing to others

Let God fulfill His greatest desire for you. Allow Him to transform you by embracing His plans for you. And find real purpose in a life of prayer, a life of priorities, a life as A Woman After God’s Own Heart.

True Woman 101: Divine Design: An Eight-Week Study on Biblical Womanhood (True Woman)

What does it mean to be a woman? The current cultural ideal for womanhood encourages women to be strident, sexual, self-centered, independent — and above all — powerful and in control. But sadly, this model of womanhood hasn’t delivered the happiness and fulfillment it promised. The Bible teaches that it’s not up to us to decide what womanhood is all about. God created male and female for a very specific purpose. His design isn’t arbitrary or unimportant. It is very intentional and He wants women to discover, embrace, and delight in the beauty of His design. He’s looking for True Women!

Bible teachers Mary A. Kassian and Nancy Leigh DeMoss share the key fundamentals of biblical womanhood in this eight week study. Each week includes five daily individual lessons leading to a group time of sharing and digging deeper into God’s Word. And to enhance this time of learning together, on-line videos are available featuring Mary and Nancy as they encourage women to discover and embrace God’s design and mission for their lives.

Lies Women Believe: And the Truth that Sets Them Free

Satan is the master deceiver and his lies are endless. And the lies Christian women believe are at the root of most of their struggles.

“Many women live under a cloud of personal guilt and condemnation,” says Nancy Leigh DeMoss. “Many are in bondage to their past. Others are gripped by fear of rejection and a longing for approval. Still others are emotional prisoners.”

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Nancy offers the most effective weapon to counter and overcome Satan’s deceptions — God’s truth!

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14 thoughts on ““4 Questions to Ask When Faced with Decisions” July 2

  1. Those are good questions, thanks for sharing, Donna. I’m in question mode right now, wanting to make sure we follow His path for us, and sometimes it’s hard to see where that is. It takes a lot of faith to follow an invisible path, doesn’t it? Hope you’re having a great summer. I’m taking a little break this week, but wanted to stop in and say thanks for your continued encouragement. ((Hug))

    • Yes, it is hard to follow that “invisible path.” I always take hope in the fact that if our hearts are right, I know He can redirect if we miss it and won’t be afraid to admit it. Hope your summer’s going well, too! Thanks for stopping by!

  2. These are helpful questions to ask. It is important to consider our motives as well as the potential outcomes. I’m going to try this with a decision I’ve been thinking about.

  3. You question about whether or not we are eager to hear God’s word got my attention. It’s something worth pondering before every church service and Bible Study we attend.

    • I agree, Kelli. It’s convicting when I think how I don’t give that as much thought and attention as I should!

  4. I’d love to check out that True Woman book – thanks for sharing at Literacy Musing Mondays. 🙂 Have a blessed week. And thank you for taking the time and energy to study God’s Word and encourage others with what you’ve learned.

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