Ordering Your Private World + LINKUP

 

Ordering Your Private World by Gordon MacDonaldWelcome once again to Mondays @ Soul Survival. Each week I’ll feature a book that I consider a valuable resource. Some will be about relationships, emotional struggles, or other areas of practical living. Some, like this week’s selection, Ordering Your Private World by Gordon MacDonald, are books that have helped me in my personal devotional life. I hope all of them will be helpful to you or someone you know.

 

Today we have all kinds of planners, apps, lists, and suggestions to help us get more organized and be more productive. So much in our culture points to the importance of getting more and more done. We have become a church of Martha’s when God wants us to first be Mary’s. That won’t happen without learning to order our own private worlds.

 

Maybe you’re a stay-at-home mom, a working dad or mom, a single parent, a business man or woman, or a grandparent. Maybe you work from home. Maybe you commute. Maybe home and family are your work. Maybe you’re a blogger, a Bible teacher, a homeschooler, or in full time ministry. Whereever you are in your life right now, you’re probably busy!

Busyness! There are probably few of us who haven’t experienced it. As we’ll see in a minute, sometimes it’s a good thing, but other times … not so much!

Maybe you can relate MacDonald’s story:

I was a young pastor in a sizable church, and I had accumulated several weeks of busyness (I mean really busy!) in my work. Now, there is a busyness that reflects a plan of activity, a pattern of priorities, and a sense of purposefulness. It is a good and satisfying busyness through which one grows and increases competence.

But there is also a busyness (a destructive busyness, actually) that reflects a chaotic way of life—a way of doing in which one is simply responding to the next thing in the day. The next thing! It makes no difference whether or not it has significance; it’s just the next thing, and one does it because it’s there to do.

In that thirtieth year I was swept along in that second kind of busyness much like someone being swept along in the rapids of a raging river. Out of control. Fearful of capsizing. Feeling quite unprotected.

He goes on to describe a breakdown of sorts where all that busyness came to a head:

Many times I have looked back wondering what I was crying for that day. Perhaps it was some of the wounds and sorrows that had been handed down from father to son from previous generations. Then again, perhaps I was weeping for my own sadnesses, the ones I had lived through as a boy and never brought to resolution. What about the possibility that I was simply reflecting weeks and weeks of stressful life in which there had been no pause and no inner, spiritual maintenance? How about the chance that it was all of these possibilities?

That Saturday was the day I learned, the hard and frightening way, that I could not go on living the way I was living and expect to be a spiritual leader (or any other kind of leader) of people. I often refer to that morning as the day I hit the wall.

The chapters that follow describe the things he learned as he began to “order his private world.” As many of us have already discovered in some measure, this is an “inside-out matter, not an outside-in matter.” MacDonald says:

There must be a quiet place where all is in order, a place from which comes the energy that overcomes turbulence and is not intimidated by it.

 

The book itself has five sections:

  • Motivation
  • Use of Time
  • Wisdom & Knowledge
  • Spiritual Strength
  • Restoration

Each one is packed full of helpful thoughts, quote, stories, suggestions, and reasons for ordering your private world.

One of my favorite chapters is entitled “Order in the Garden,” talking about the garden of our soul. In it the author talks about the restlessness and lack of spiritual satisfaction many of us feel. He also points out some of the “quick fixes” we attempt and the shallow level of inner life we have come to accept. He says this:

Today Christians talk about the importance of “quiet time,” a daily devotional often reduced to a system or method that is swift and streamlined. We boil it down to seven minutes or thirty minutes, depending on how much time we have available. We use Bible study guides, devotional guides, devotional booklets, and carefully organized prayer lists, all of which are nice—better, I suppose, than nothing—but not nearly as effective as what the mystics had in mind.

This book is not an in depth study of all the spiritual disciplines. Others have done that thoroughly and well. Instead, MacDonald focuses on those that are most often neglected: the pursuit of solitude and silence; regular listening to God; the experience of reflection and meditation; and prayer as worship and intercession.

Ordering Your Private World, along with two others that I’ll share with you later, impacted my life in a profound way about 20 years ago and have done so again and again through the years since. It has been updated and a study guide has been added, but the principles are timeless and life changing.

If you, like so many of us do from time to time, feel that restlessness and dissatisfaction, grab a copy, find some quiet time and dig in!

Blessings,
Donna

Quotations taken from:
MacDonald, Gordon (2003-01-07). Ordering Your Private World Thomas Nelson. Kindle Edition.

Previously featured books:

Week #1 – We looked at a great book entitled Taming the To-Do List: How to Choose Your Best Work Every Day by Glynnis Whitwer. If you deal with procrastination or an unending to-do list, you may want to check out Glynnis’ book. You can read my post here.

Week #2 – I featured a little gem of a book entitled Resolving Everyday Conflict by Ken Sande of Peacemaker Ministries. You can read my post here.

 

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14 thoughts on “Ordering Your Private World + LINKUP

  1. I remember reading this book back in the 80’s and then begin devastated to learn about the author’s moral lapse — so thankful that he and his wife have persevered, that she forgave and they were able to move on together in ministry. Thanks for sharing this great and timeless book!

    • Sometimes we need to collapse in more than one area before we see ourselves as we really are. It is horrible to see someone go through all that, but I have seen numerous marriages come back and be stronger than ever. Let’s pray that theirs is. Pastor MacDonald has also written with a great deal of insight about our sinful human nature and how we must be on guard against those temptations. May God use all our failures for His glory!

  2. Hi Donna!
    I read this book a number of years ago! Gordon MacDonald’s book is right on target and my husband and I both enjoyed it! Thanks for the review!

  3. “We’ve become a church of Martha’s when God wants us first to be Marys.” I was so caught up in this snare. After all, who was going to plan the funeral dinners, clean the kitchen after church dinners, teach the children…and the list goes on. Then I learned that it wasn’t that I couldn’t to Martha-like chores. But I did need to worship like Mary first. What a difference that made in my life! I’m eager to read this book–you’ve written a good review.

    • That’s a lesson I’ve had to learn and relearn numerous times! I like the way you said it, we can do the Martha-like chores, but can’t neglect to be Mary’s, as well. Blessings!

  4. I’m in a busy place right now with our big move so thank you for sharing this! I needed to hear even this small reminder not to neglect what is most important! Thanks for sharing this at Booknificent Thursday on Mommynificent.com this week!
    Tina

    • I know I need the same reminder on a regular basis! I pray you are getting settled in. Blessings on your family and your ministry! Thanks for hosting, Tina!

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