“Strengthening Your Marriage” + LINKUP


Welcome to Mondays @ Soul Survival. Each week I feature a book that I consider a valuable resource.


This week’s selection is Strengthening Your Marriage by Dr. Wayne Mack.


Strengthening Your Marriage - How is your marriage? Is it good? Is it great? Could it use some work or, at least, some fine tuning? Marriages, even good ones, need regular maintenance.How is your marriage? Is it good? Is it great? Could it use some work or, at least, some fine tuning? Marriages, even good ones, need regular maintenance.

Genesis 2.24 says:

For this reason a man shall leave his father and his mother, and be joined to his wife; and they shall become one flesh.

This is much more than the obvious physical union between a man and a woman. This is a unity of hearts and goals that requires good communication and a laying down of our own selfish agendas to follow God’s agenda.

Amos 3.3 says, “Can two people walk together without agreeing on the direction?”

As Christians our goals should be in line with God’s goals for marriage, but that won’t happen unless we know and understand God’s blueprint.

Dr. Wayne Mack’s book, Strengthening Your Marriage, can be a great tool for helping any couple do just that. The book is made up of 8 Units to study together as a couple or as part of a small group:

  1. God’s Purpose for Marriage
  2. The Wife’s Responsibilities
  3. The Husband’s Responsibilities
  4. Good Communication
  5. Financial Agreement
  6. Sexual Unity
  7. Raising Children
  8. Family Religion

Each unit begins with a teaching section in the form of an amplified outline. Key points are noted and all points are accompanied by Scripture references. The teaching section is followed by study questions and practical exercises to work through as a couple. Dr. Mack says:

These study questions and exercises are not simply busy work. They are designed to provide the basis for practical, specific, personalized research and direction which will result in the development of greater unity in your marriage.

Scripture says, “In all labor there is profit” (Prov. 14.23), and nowhere is this more true than in the marriage relationship. Good, God-honoring marriages do not just happen. They are the result of dedicated, diligent, consistent prayer and work on the part of both husband and wife.

In this manual I call you to work – to work on the most important human relationship in your life. What I am going to ask you to do will not be easy. Time, effort, serious thought, painful examination, and honest evaluation will be required. But I guarantee you that your prayerful efforts will be richly rewarded.

My husband and I have worked through this book and have used it as part of our counseling work with various couples. It offers solid, practical, biblical hope and help for couples who wish to study and apply it.

Marriages, even good ones, need maintenance. If you’re interested in strengthening your marriage, Dr. Mack’s book is a great resource.

Note: For those of you who live in the El Paso area, I’ll be teaching a study based on last week’s featured book beginning August 25. We’ll meet Thursday mornings at 9:00 am at Cielo Vista Church, 3585 N. Lee Trevino.



Quotations taken from:
Mack, Wayne. Strengthening Your Marriage. P & R Publishing.


You can get a copy of Strengthening Your Marriage or shop for other resources here.



Christian bloggers linkup

Mondays @ Soul Survival is a place to share your insights about God and His Word, parenting, marriage, homemaking, organization and more. Feel free to link up multiple posts as long as they are family friendly. Remember this is a Christian site.

I hope you’ll take the time to visit someone else and get to know them.

I pin many of your posts on my “Mondays @ Soul Survival” Pinterest board, as time allows. I would love it if you link back in some way and share the linkup on social media.

Sign up for reminders of this LINKUP and Christian Living posts here.

Some of the Previously Featured Books:

Last week’s resource was The God Empowered Wife: How Strong Women Can Help Their Husbands Become Godly Leaders by K.B. (Karen) Haught. Read it here.


How to Act Right When Your Spouse Acts Wrong by Leslie Vernick. Read about it here.

The Power of Prayer in a Believer’s Life be Charles Spurgeon. Read about it here.

God’s Attributes: Rest for Life’s Struggles by Brad Hambrick. Read about it here.

HELP! I want to Change by Jim Newheiser. Read about it here.

When Life Is Hard by James MacDonald. Read about it here.

Pleasing People: How Not to be an Approval Junkie by Lou Priolo. Read about it here.

If I’m a Christian, Why Am I Depressed?: Finding Meaning and Hope in the Dark Valley One Man’s Journey by Robert B. Somerville. Read about it here.

I sometimes LINKUP with these blogs:

Mondays Making Your Home Sing Musing Mondays Raising Samuels Darling Downs Diaries Mom to Mom Mondays The Life of Faith The Modest Mom The Art of Homemaking Our Home of Many Blessings Desperate Homeschoolers The Beauty in His Grip
Tuesdays Cornerstone Confessions Testimony Tuesdays Tell It to Me Tuesday Purposeful Faith Tuesday Talk Intentional Tuesday
Wednesdays A Wise Woman Builds Her Home A Little R & R Seeking God in All I Do Coffee for Your Heart Messy Marriage Woman to Woman Oh My Heartsie Girls
Thursdays Frog’s Lily Pad Booknificent Thursdays Children Are a Blessing 3-D Lessons for Life Life of Scoop
Fridays Create with Joy Missional Women Coffeeshop Conversations Grace & Truth Faith & Friends
Saturdays Snippets of Inspiration Word of God Speak
Sundays Spiritual Sundays Give Me Grace

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8 thoughts on ““Strengthening Your Marriage” + LINKUP

  1. Thanks for the link-up Donna. Sounds like a good book. I just finished one called The Husband Project. We celebrate 47 years marriage next month, but there is always something to improve.

    • I’m not familiar with that one, Debbie. I’ll have to check it out. Thanks for linking up. Blessings!

    • This is a great one. It can lead to a lot of great discussion and digging into God’s Word. Thanks for hosting!

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