“Do You Always Have to Have the Last Word?” July 17
Do you ever find yourself arguing… even when the issue really isn’t that important?
Do you feel compelled to point out the other side of every discussion? Do you have a hard time letting someone else have the last word? Or do you quietly replay conversations in your mind, thinking of all the things you wish you had said?
Most of us wouldn’t describe ourselves as argumentative. Yet today’s proverb gives us reason to stop and examine our hearts.
The Bible describes a contentious woman—not simply someone who occasionally disagrees, but someone whose words and attitudes regularly create conflict rather than peace.
The uncomfortable truth is that because of our sinful nature, every one of us has at least a little of that tendency. The good news is that God doesn’t simply expose our sin—He also shows us how to change.
Today we’ll discover where a contentious spirit comes from, why it’s often rooted in pride and selfishness, and how the gospel enables us to become women (and men) who speak with wisdom, kindness, and grace.
